Sis!! What it do boo?!! Girl, Let me tell you. I’ve been here trying to get my life all the way together. My husband is home on leave, and I’ve been in bed chilling like I don’t have any responsibilities. But I’m here!!
I want to share with you ladies somethings that I have learned in my journey thus far as a Stay at Home Mom (SAHM). I have created a list of the top 3 things that I am sure to help you become more productive and live with intention as you take on 2021 and all the surprises that can come along.
Get a Planner
I am sure you are questioning my judgment right now, but yes a planner is needed. One piece of advice that was given to me years ago was to run my household like I am the CEO of a corporation. That means I assign tasks, I schedule appointments that best fit my schedule, and most importantly….I TAKE DAYS OFF!! Yes sis, I actually have days marked in my calendar that says “Summer’s Day off”. Prior to Covid, my husband encouraged me to get away to a hotel so that I can clock out completely!! Those were the days! In order for you to be successful and mentally available, you have to take time out for yourself. If you are unable to take days off, I suggest you speak with your spouse and schedule mornings or evenings off.
Schedule Household Tasks
You need a set schedule so that you will be more productive at home. I recently started setting days that I complete certain household tasks. For instance, on Mondays I deep clean and do laundry. I only do laundry on Mondays. I know what you are thinking, but I promise you it works for us. You might find that doing a small load daily will be more productive for you, but sticking to the schedule is what is most important. If you want to go the extra mile then hire a cleaning service to deep clean for you. Now if you are anything like my Grams, she would not allow this, but I love it! Search Groupon for deals so that it is also budget-friendly.
Set Personal Goals
As SAHM’s we always put our family first. This upcoming year, I want you to pencil in some time for yourself. I know that in some areas, salons and such are closed down, but find ways to pamper yourself at home. Every night I take time for myself by just taking a long shower or bath. I recently started adding a nice facial mask to keep this almost 40-year-old skin glowing. Sis, you gotta keep yourself up. Now if you need encouragement in getting back to your true identity, then check out this post. I go into detail about how I took a much-needed step in regaining my identity once becoming a mom. These goals that you set are for you. I want you to dig deep and find something that you really want to accomplish this year. Set a short term goal of 6 months, then again for the next 6 months. It is imperative that you are honest with yourself so that you can give it your all.
These are 3 of the top things that I want for you to take into consideration as we approach 2021. Of course, there will be a ton of advice that I will share, but these are the foundations. Be intentional ladies! Stop doing things that you feel are a waste of time. Eliminate things that take up a lot of your time. I know your kids are still excited about all of those Christmas gifts, but sis, who cleans it up?! I’ll wait……Put some of those toys away and change them out monthly…Ain’t nobody picking up all those toys daily. Be Intentional!!!
Let me know what you think or what you could use some advice on. Don’t forget to follow me on Instagram where I share more tips!
Happy New Year!!
